Renowned Nollywood veteran Chiwetalu Agu has sparked widespread conversation with a heartfelt message to women, urging them to prioritize financial, mental, and spiritual stability before entering into marriage. The actor shared his views in a video posted to his official Instagram page, emphasizing that marriage should complement a woman’s life, not define it.
In his message, Agu encouraged women to focus on self-development and independence, stating: “The best advice I can give you as a lady before you embark on the journey of marriage is to be a complete woman before you marry. Establish yourself as a woman before you marry. Make sure you are mentally, physically, spiritually and financially stable before you marry.”
He stressed that marriage is not a measure of worth, and that women should not feel pressured to marry as a means of validation. Instead, he advocated for women to build their identity, career, and emotional resilience before committing to a lifelong partnership.
Agu’s remarks come amid growing discourse around gender roles, financial independence, and emotional well-being in relationships. His message aligns with a broader movement encouraging women to view marriage as a mutual partnership rather than a societal expectation or personal milestone.
“You don’t need marriage to feel whole, valuable or fulfilled,” Agu added. “Marriage should be a beautiful addition, not a missing piece.”
The actor’s message has resonated widely across social media, with many praising his progressive stance and candid delivery. Advocates for women’s empowerment have lauded Agu for using his platform to challenge traditional norms and promote holistic self-worth.
His comments have also sparked renewed interest in conversations around mental health, financial literacy, and personal growth among young women preparing for marriage.